Since the blog’s about page has the timeless photo of a gentleman from the 1950’s graciously opening the car door for his female companion and her thankful reaction I figured the first entry should be about the tradition of men opening doors for women. Can the simple act of opening the door really be the pathway to becoming a woman’s knight in shiny armor?

Obviously anyone with two arms can open the door for themselves but when a Gentleman goes out of his way to open the door it signifies something that transcends the simple physical act.

I have noticed that more mature (older) people open and hold the door open for others to walk through. So what is up with men of a younger generation? Do they find it obsolete and archaic? I am sure if their CEO or manager was approaching the door they would make sure to hold the door open. The reason they would hold the door open is out of respect (possibly fear).

So then, if you respect your girlfriend, wife and anyone else that is approaching the door you should go out of your way to armor up and get your polish rags out and hold the door open. This simple gesture will demonstrate respect, care, courtesy and thoughtfulness. It does not matter whether the other party acknowledges your Gentlemanly act you should do it for yourself. Trust me you will feel better because you did it and 95% of the time I have heard the compliment, “What a Gentleman” and trust me that is reward enough for me. Maybe the next woman you hold the door open for will be the future love of your life.

In the end you are a Gentleman following a long tradition of proper manners and distinction.

Mr. M

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